Some phases of everybody's life are same, like phase of growing from kindergarten to schooling. but what after that? Do you think after schooling everything changes?
We always grow up watching our elders, our families, our surrounding people and so on. oh ok let's just not blame anyone! we grow up watching what we see, what we hear, and most importantly what we learn!
As a child we are always eager or excited for "Life after school" and as always our tradition goes like opening account on social media i.e. "Facebook" is the most basic step or tradition which has always been followed by a child! creating new account with different name or real name, writing everything which we learned in our school for a good, proper, and effective bio! And try to capture the best photos and upload as a profile picture! we add our school friends, then our cousins and lastly our families and relatives. (some people will definitely not be same as mentioned above) at this point we may start adding new people which are way far form us! or may be from same city, same area, juniors, seniors and list goes on and on. We always find opportunity to go online through computer, siblings mobile phone, parents phone enjoy that 5/10 mins of being online! slowly we start expressing more to our virtual friends than our parents! we start finding them more close and try to justify how good we are, explore more about our likes and dislikes, about families, about what we do through out the day and so on. despite of not knowing the person to whom we share our secrets. we trust them because they revert back more interestingly!
with the time come we start sharing pictures of us, our house, our family pictures, we share our address, our daily routine, about parents, siblings, our personal contact number. In beginning everything goes well that we trust the person more than anybody else!
Things goes wrong when unknown virtual friend ask for our personal information. They may pretend to be good but their motive may affect you! at this stage children/teenager finds everything cool! It may possible that our personal information, pictures may get miss used, may be they can blackmail or they can come at our place and try to harm us! because at this point the person knows every information about us! there may be chances of miss using friendship and it can turn out to be worst thing ever! they can threat us, bully us, they may force you to steal money from own house, or they can take you out at unknown place, they may force you to do wrong things! At this point we become helpless because we never thought of being in such situation! Later on, after experiencing such phase of life we some how realize and get over this. After such experience of this so called "Cool Life" some may go through depression, loneliness, bullied and so on.
(Above experience may not be same for all :-))
At the end we grow up telling our younger siblings, our younger age group about how "cool life" turn into "web of lies"
- CHAITALI M SHIDUNKAR
